We hope each one of you had a relaxing winter break! Spring is right around the corner and we have some exciting events coming soon! Check back for more information on our upcoming meetings and the Easter Extravaganza! Hope to see you all there!

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Your Sisters in Christ!
The Mothers and Others Board

Wednesday, February 27, 2013

Lenten Reflection

February 28, 2013

The Mass Prayers
JEREMIAH 17:5–10; LUKE 16:19–31
There is genius and beauty in the prayers of the Mass, and yet, most people tune out the prayers. It seems to me that keeping God’s dream for us to become the-best-version-of-ourselves in the forefront of our mind unlocks the language of the many prayers that make up the Mass.

The prayers of the Mass remind us that we are pilgrims on a journey, that we are not on this journey alone, and that we are called to be responsible stewards of our own lives while at the same time living in a way that is mindful of the needs of others and mindful of the needs of all of creation. Over and over again, the prayers of the Mass orient us toward God and remind us of his desire to have a relationship with us.

There is great beauty in these prayers, but too often we don’t hear them because we are distracted by our thoughts or by those around us. Some of the prayers are the same for every Mass. Others change with the seasons of the Church calendar. And still others change every day. If you take time to listen and truly pray these prayers as the priest says them, you will discover the intimate knowledge the Church has of our spiritual needs.

The prayers of the Mass are beautifully integrated and carefully designed to keep us focused on God’s dream for us to become the-best-version-of-ourselves. For example, the opening prayers of the Mass guide us to focus on the themes that will emerge in the readings that day. This is the opening prayer for the Thursday after Ash Wednesday: “Lord, may everything we do begin with your inspiration, continue with your help, and reach perfection under your guidance.”

The Mass reveals God’s vision for us as individuals, his vision for marriage and family, for community and society, and for the Church and the world.

How well do I know the prayers of the Mass? Have I paid attention to the changes in the prayers that began last Advent?
from Rediscover Lent by Matthew Kelly

Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Recap from the meeting 2/12/2013 and reminders

Wow what a great meeting today ladies! It was nice seeing everyone today. For those of you who missed the meeting we learned about relationships and communication. A few highlights for those who missed it.

  • We all need balance
  • It is impossible to talk rational with someone who is emotionally flooded
  • Instead of offering answers to an emotionally flooded person give positive validation 
  • Find a solution together once both parties are balanced again
  • Sometimes we all need to call a timeout
  • Keep your expectations realistic. (Don't expect him to bring you flowers if he never has before)
  • Ask for what you need! Don't expect anyone to just know (Not realistic)
  • Finally, True love is accepting who someone is and loving them anyway.
A few additional reminders from our meeting:
  1. Tickets are on sale for our big event. The event is May 11th, take advantage of the early bird discounts! If you purchase by April 15th it is only $75 a couple.
  2. It is time to for elections again! Anyone interested in joining the board needs to contact Davene!
  3. Bible study meets again Thursday

Don't forget tomorrow is Ash Wednesday, and it is a day of fasting and abstinence! Below is a list of the masses in the area.

St. Martha's
7:30am Jose Toves †
Jeff Allen
12pm Lit. w/Distribution of Ashes (Eng.)
4pm Lit. w/Distribution of Ashes (Eng.)
6pm Lit. w/Distribution of Ashes (Eng.)
8pm Lit. w/Distribution of Ashes (Bil.)

St. Catherine's
7:00 AM English
12:15 PM English
6:00 PM English
8:00 PM Spanish
 
Blessed Teresa
7:30 am English
4:30 pm English
6:00 pm Spanish
7:30 pm English
 
Ok if I missed anything let me know and I hope you all have a fabulous Ash Wednesday, Valentine's day and the rest of the week!

Monday, February 4, 2013

History of Lent

Since lent is right around the corner I thought we could get ready with a bit of history.

God Bless,
Amy

History of Lent

FR. WILLIAM SAUNDERS

What are the origins of Lent? Did the Church always have this time before Easter?

Lent is a special time of prayer, penance, sacrifice and good works in preparation of the celebration of Easter. In the desire to renew the liturgical practices of the Church, The Constitution on the Sacred Liturgy of Vatican Council II stated, "The two elements which are especially characteristic of Lent -- the recalling of baptism or the preparation for it, and penance -- should be given greater emphasis in the liturgy and in liturgical catechesis. It is by means of them that the Church prepares the faithful for the celebration of Easter, while they hear God's word more frequently and devote more time to prayer" (no. 109). The word Lent itself is derived from the Anglo-Saxon words lencten, meaning "Spring," and lenctentid, which literally means not only "Springtide" but also was the word for "March," the month in which the majority of Lent falls.
Since the earliest times of the Church, there is evidence of some kind of Lenten preparation for Easter. For instance, St. Irenaeus (d. 203) wrote to Pope St. Victor I, commenting on the celebration of Easter and the differences between practices in the East and the West: "The dispute is not only about the day, but also about the actual character of the fast. Some think that they ought to fast for one day, some for two, others for still more; some make their 'day' last 40 hours on end. Such variation in the observance did not originate in our own day, but very much earlier, in the time of our forefathers" (Eusebius, History of the Church, V, 24). When Rufinus translated this passage from Greek into Latin, the punctuation made between "40" and "hours" made the meaning to appear to be "40 days, twenty-four hours a day." The importance of the passage, nevertheless, remains that since the time of "our forefathers" -- always an expression for the apostles -- a 40-day period of Lenten preparation existed. However, the actual practices and duration of Lent were still not homogenous throughout the Church.
Lent becomes more regularized after the legalization of Christianity in A.D. 313. The Council of Nicea (325), in its disciplinary canons, noted that two provincial synods should be held each year, "one before the 40 days of Lent." St. Athanasius (d. 373) in this "Festal Letters" implored his congregation to make a 40-day fast prior to the more intense fasting of Holy Week. St. Cyril of Jerusalem (d. 386) in his Catechectical Lectures, which are the paradigm for our current RCIA programs, had 18 pre-baptismal instructions given to the catechumens during Lent. St. Cyril of Alexandria (d. 444) in his series of "Festal Letters" also noted the practices and duration of Lent, emphasizing the 40-day period of fasting. Finally, Pope St. Leo (d. 461) preached that the faithful must "fulfill with their fasts the Apostolic institution of the 40 days," again noting the apostolic origins of Lent. One can safely conclude that by the end of the fourth century, the 40-day period of Easter preparation known as Lent existed, and that prayer and fasting constituted its primary spiritual exercises.
Of course, the number "40" has always had special spiritual significance regarding preparation. On Mount Sinai, preparing to receive the Ten Commandments, "Moses stayed there with the Lord for 40 days and 40 nights, without eating any food or drinking any water" (Ex 34:28). Elijah walked "40 days and 40 nights" to the mountain of the Lord, Mount Horeb (another name for Sinai) (I Kgs 19:8). Most importantly, Jesus fasted and prayed for "40 days and 40 nights" in the desert before He began His public ministry (Mt 4:2).
Once the 40 days of Lent were established, the next development concerned how much fasting was to be done. In Jerusalem, for instance, people fasted for 40 days, Monday through Friday, but not on Saturday or Sunday, thereby making Lent last for eight weeks. In Rome and in the West, people fasted for six weeks, Monday through Saturday, thereby making Lent last for six weeks. Eventually, the practice prevailed of fasting for six days a week over the course of six weeks, and Ash Wednesday was instituted to bring the number of fast days before Easter to 40. The rules of fasting varied. First, some areas of the Church abstained from all forms of meat and animal products, while others made exceptions for food like fish. For example, Pope St. Gregory (d. 604), writing to St. Augustine of Canterbury, issued the following rule: "We abstain from flesh, meat, and from all things that come from flesh, as milk, cheese and eggs."
Nevertheless, I was always taught, "If you gave something up for the Lord, tough it out. Don't act like a Pharisee looking for a loophole."
Second, the general rule was for a person to have one meal a day, in the evening or at 3 p.m.
These Lenten fasting rules also evolved. Eventually, a smaller repast was allowed during the day to keep up one's strength from manual labor. Eating fish was allowed, and later eating meat was also allowed through the week except on Ash Wednesday and Friday. Dispensations were given for eating dairy products if a pious work was performed, and eventually this rule was relaxed totally. (However, the abstinence from even dairy products led to the practice of blessing Easter eggs and eating pancakes on Shrove Tuesday, the day before Ash Wednesday.)
Over the years, modifications have been made to the Lenten observances, making our practices not only simple but also easy. Ash Wednesday still marks the beginning of Lent, which lasts for 40 days, not including Sundays. The present fasting and abstinence laws are very simple: On Ash Wednesday and Good Friday, the faithful fast (having only one full meal a day and smaller snacks to keep up one's strength) and abstain from meat; on the other Fridays of Lent, the faithful abstain from meat. People are still encouraged "to give up something" for Lent as a sacrifice. (An interesting note is that technically on Sundays and solemnities like St. Joseph's Day (March 19) and the Annunciation (March 25), one is exempt and can partake of whatever has been offered up for Lent.
Nevertheless, I was always taught, "If you gave something up for the Lord, tough it out. Don't act like a Pharisee looking for a loophole." Moreover, an emphasis must be placed on performing spiritual works, like attending the Stations of the Cross, attending Mass, making a weekly holy hour before the Blessed Sacrament, taking time for personal prayer and spiritual reading and most especially making a good confession and receiving sacramental absolution. Although the practices may have evolved over the centuries, the focus remains the same: to repent of sin, to renew our faith and to prepare to celebrate joyfully the mysteries of our salvation.
Saunders, Rev. William. "History of Lent." Arlington Catholic Herald.

Saturday, February 2, 2013

Good News Reflection 2/3/13

****Announcement***
Please join us, Tuesday, February 12, 2013
for Mothers & Others General Meeting in the old worship center.  In honor of St. Valentine's Day, we will have guest speaker Linda Donnelly talking about relationships and marriages.  It is going to be very entertaining and we hope to see you there!
*As always childcare is provided.
 
Good News Reflection
February 3, 2013
4th Sunday in Ordinary Time

This Sunday’s Readings:
Jer 1:4-5, 17-19
Ps 71:1-6, 15, 17
1 Cor 12:31 – 13:13
Luke 4:21-30
Take a close look at this Sunday's Gospel story. Jesus has just finished reading the scripture that we heard last Sunday ("The Spirit of the Lord is upon me, he has anointed me to bring good news to the poor," etc.). He tells the people in the synagogue that this scripture is now being fulfilled through him, and they all speak highly of him. But by the end of this scripture, they're furious with him.
What changed their attitude?
Their awe turned into confusion when they remembered, "Isn't this the son of Joseph?" Unlike those who would meet Jesus for the first time in later chapters of the story, these people had experiences with Jesus the toddler who fell when learning to walk, Jesus the teenager who bled from mistakes made while learning the carpentry trade from his father, Jesus the young man who wept at his father’s funeral.
Their attitude changed when they stopped listening with their spirits and started listening with their pre-conceived notions. This disconnect from the divine then stirred up their emotions.
Think of how people react when you confuse them by doing or saying something out of character, that is, out of the character that they expect from you. If you're perceived as too young or too old to do what you are in fact capable of doing, or if your education level doesn't include a formal degree that proves that you know what you do already know, or if you don't tell people what they want to hear, their surprise turns into confusion that triggers an emotional response against you.
We expect them to believe us and trust us, and when they don't, our surprise turns into confusion that triggers an emotional response against them. But how did Jesus handle it when they treated him this way? He calmly spoke a truth that was inspired by the Holy Spirit. Did he have an emotional reaction? Sure! He was human like us; we were all created by the Father to have emotions. The problem is not in the emotions; the problem occurs when we listen through our emotions instead of our spiritual connection to the Holy Spirit.
Questions for Personal Reflection:
How much time do you spend training your ear to hear the Holy Spirit within you? When life is busy happening around you, do you mostly react to it or are you on some level praying about it? What can you do this week to develop a more automatic connection to the Spirit of God?
Questions for Family & Community Faith Sharing:
What are some of the ways you listen to the Holy Spirit? Keeping in mind a surprising challenge that happened to you recently, describe the differences between an emotional reaction and a spiritual action.

-www.gnm.org